Scenario

Text Someone You Just Matched With

The first message sets the tone for everything that follows. Learn the Reference → Question → Light framework to send an opener that is personal enough to stand out and light enough to get a reply.

Goal

Send a first message that gets a response. Reference something from their profile, ask one open question, and keep it light - no paragraphs, no pressure, no pickup lines.

Framework

Hook → Proof → Pivot

Coach

Amara Osei

Communication Psychologist & Relationship Coach

Estimated time

6 min